Trauma is a fact of life according to Levin, this implies that we cannot escape trauma! If we cannot escape it why then to we struggle to deal with “life”. I am more than convinced that we can “manage” and “recover” from trauma, however we will need to make a number of strategic decisions that will alter the way we view life.
According to Dr Freston, (2008:4) wellness is not so much a goal as a process, a journey, a way, or orientating yourself to life.
Perhaps the more relevant question is, what then causes us to spiral out of control? This “spiralling out of control” is stereotyped by resorting to passivity or aggression whatever is our preferred defence mechanism. Is it not then quite logical to reason, if I know my trigger, the “button” that people seem to push when least expected, would I will be in a better position to prevent the loss of my “normal” skill set!
Perhaps it’s the loss of “normality” that may often create “opportunities” for us to grow as a person.
Is this the trial or test that is set before us? The challenge may not be the traumatic incident but rather the journey to recovery from a particular traumatic incident. This maybe an opportunity to grow “another” skill set. It maybe unfortunate in timing but who knows when is opportune, often growth takes place when we are challenged and when we least expect it. It is this resistance that develops the body builder, who is forever “pushing” more resistance to “develop” their physical appearance.
Trauma involves developing our emotional intelligence which ultimately will confront us with our own resistance to change.
In an interesting article which is an edited extract from an essay first published at dobelli.com Rolf Dobelli had this to say about trauma and the media.
We all know and have said it on a number of occasions that the social media platform is not a beneficial place for us as humans. Certain newspapers are branded by us the readers as sensation seeking and sell us the juicy parts for scandal and hypocrisy. Yet day after day we continue to purchase the newspaper and we devour these succulent pieces or news just like we do when enjoy our “braai”, a “castle” under a sunny African sky with our Chevrolet motor car!
But why do we buy the infernal newspaper or watch the numerous new channels when they don’t help us in our daily lives…
In his recent book , The Art of Thinking Clearly: Better Thinking, Better Decisions by Rolf Dobelli he highlights the following thoughts .
- News is bad for you – and giving up reading it will make you happier
News is bad for your health. It leads to fear and aggression, and hinders your creativity and ability to think deeply. Many people have recognised the hazards of living with an overabundance of food (obesity, diabetes) and have started to change diets. But according to Dobelli, most of us do not yet understand that news is to the mind what sugar is to the body.
He continues to say that the News is easy to digest. The media feeds “the population small bites of trivial matter, “tit bits” that don’t really concern our lives and don’t require thinking.
That’s why we experience almost no saturation according to Dobelli. Unlike reading books and long magazine articles (which require thinking), the population can swallow limitless quantities of news flashes, “which are bright-coloured candies for the mind”. People are beginning to recognise how toxic news can be.
- News misleads.
News leads us to walk around with the completely wrong risk map in our heads.
So terrorism is over-rated. Chronic stress is under-rated. The collapse of Lehman Brothers is overrated. Fiscal irresponsibility is under-rated. Astronauts are over-rated. Nurses are under-rated. We are not rational enough to be exposed to the press.
News is irrelevant.
Out of the approximately 10,000 news stories you have read in the last 12 months, name one that because you consumed it, allowed you to make a better decision about a serious matter affecting your life, your career or your business.
The point is: the consumption of news is irrelevant to you. But people find it very difficult to recognise what’s relevant. It’s much easier to recognise what’s new.
Media organisations want you to believe that news offers you some sort of a competitive advantage. Many fall for that. We get anxious when we’re cut off from the flow of news. In reality, news consumption is a competitive disadvantage. The less news you consume, the bigger the advantage you have.
- News has no explanatory power.
News items are bubbles popping on the surface of a deeper world. Will accumulating facts help you understand the world? Sadly, no. The relationship is inverted.
The important stories are non-stories: slow, powerful movements that develop below journalists’ radar but have a transforming effect. The more “news factoids” you digest, the less of the big picture you will understand. If more information leads to higher economic success, we’d expect journalists to be at the top of the pyramid. That’s not the case.
- News is toxic to your body.
It constantly triggers the limbic system. Panicky stories spur the release of cascades of glucocorticoid (cortisol). This deregulates your immune system and inhibits the release of growth hormones.
In other words, your body finds itself in a state of chronic stress. High glucocorticoid levels cause impaired digestion, lack of growth (cell, hair, bone), nervousness and susceptibility to infections.
The other potential side-effects include fear, aggression, tunnel-vision and desensitisation.
- News increases cognitive errors.
News feeds the mother of all cognitive errors: confirmation bias.
In the words of Warren Buffett: “What the human being is best at doing is interpreting all new information so that their prior conclusions remain intact.” News exacerbates this flaw.
We become prone to overconfidence, take stupid risks and misjudge opportunities. It also exacerbates another cognitive error: the story bias. Our brains crave stories that “make sense” even if they don’t correspond to reality. Any journalist who writes, “The market moved because of X” or “the company went bankrupt because of Y” is an idiot. I am fed up with this cheap way of “explaining” the world.
- News inhibits thinking.
Thinking requires concentration. Concentration requires uninterrupted time. News pieces are specifically engineered to interrupt you. They are like viruses that steal attention for their own purposes.
News makes us shallow thinkers. But it’s worse than that. News severely affects memory.
There are two types of memory. Long-range memory’s capacity is nearly infinite, but working memory is limited to a certain amount of slippery data. The path from short-term to long-term memory is a choke-point in the brain, but anything you want to understand must pass through it. If this passageway is disrupted, nothing gets through. Because news disrupts concentration, it weakens comprehension.
Online news has an even worse impact. In a 2001 study two scholars in Canada showed that comprehension declines as the number of hyperlinks in a document increases. Why? Because whenever a link appears, your brain has to at least make the choice not to click, which in itself is distracting. News is an intentional interruption system.
- News works like a drug.
As stories develop, we want to know how they continue. With hundreds of arbitrary storylines in our heads, this craving is increasingly compelling and hard to ignore. Scientists used to think that the dense connections formed among the 100 billion neurons inside our skulls were largely fixed by the time we reached adulthood. Today we know that this is not the case. Nerve cells routinely break old connections and form new ones. The more news we consume, the more we exercise the neural circuits devoted to skimming and multitasking while ignoring those used for reading deeply and thinking with profound focus. Most news consumers – even if they used to be avid book readers – have lost the ability to absorb lengthy articles or books. After four, five pages they get tired, their concentration vanishes, they become restless. It’s not because they got older or their schedules became more onerous. It’s because the physical structure of their brains has changed.
- News wastes time.
If you read the newspaper for 15 minutes each morning, then check the news for 15 minutes during lunch and 15 minutes before you go to bed, then add five minutes here and there when you’re at work, then count distraction and refocusing time, you will lose at least half a day every week. Information is no longer a scarce commodity. But attention is. You are not that irresponsible with your money, reputation or health. Why give away your mind?
- News makes us passive.
News stories are overwhelmingly about things you cannot influence. The daily repetition of news about things we can’t act upon makes us passive. It grinds us down until we adopt a worldview that is pessimistic, desensitised, sarcastic and fatalistic. The scientific term is “learned helplessness”. It’s a bit of a stretch, but I would not be surprised if news consumption, at least partially contributes to the widespread disease of depression.
News kills creativity.
Finally, things we already know limit our creativity. This is one reason that mathematicians, novelists, composers and entrepreneurs often produce their most creative works at a young age. Their brains enjoy a wide, uninhabited space that emboldens them to come up with and pursue novel ideas. I don’t know a single truly creative mind who is a news junkie – not a writer, not a composer, mathematician, physician, scientist, musician, designer, architect or painter. On the other hand, I know a bunch of viciously uncreative minds who consume news like drugs. If you want to come up with old solutions, read news. If you are looking for new solutions, don’t.
Society needs journalism – but in a different way. Investigative journalism is always relevant. We need reporting that polices our institutions and uncovers truth. But important findings don’t have to arrive in the form of news. Long journal articles and in-depth books are good, too.
I have now gone without news for four years, so I can see, feel and report the effects of this freedom first-hand: less disruption, less anxiety, deeper thinking, more time, more insights. It’s not easy, but it’s worth it.
The Art of Thinking Clearly: Better Thinking, Better Decisions by Rolf Dobelli is published by Sceptre, guardianbookshop.co.uk accessed on the 20th October 2103
Interesting considering that we wish to stay informed yet the very act of staying informed is poisoning us. I hope that this article will help to connect the dots between the mind and the body and how we need to “detox” ourselves on a number of levels. Do not hesitate contact me to assist you in recovering for your life’s challenges.
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